I thought distance had ended us, but it didn’t

My fiancé moved abroad for work. At first, we were excited—video calls, future plans, constant messages. But slowly, the time difference became fights. Missed calls felt like neglect, and tiny misunderstandings grew into long silences. I began to believe that maybe love can’t survive distance.

One night, while scrolling endlessly, I found Dayaram ji’s page. The way he spoke about connection being an energy, not just proximity, touched something in me. I reached out. On our very first call, Daya Sir said, “If love is real, distance is just geography. The bond must be fed in other ways.”

He carried out a 7–11 day Yagya for us, explaining that it would create balance in our energies while we worked on our patterns. He gave me simple but powerful steps:

• Stop expecting instant replies; focus on quality, not speed.

• Write one heartfelt message daily, not long essays of blame.

• Choose one shared ritual—even from afar. For us, it became lighting a lamp at the same hour, across continents.

By the end of the process, the heaviness between us lifted. Our calls stopped being interrogations and started feeling like home again. He too admitted, “I feel calmer, like we’re not pulling against each other anymore.”

Pandit Ji reminded me: “Love is not maintained by hours together, but by the steadiness of the thread between you.” That’s exactly what happened. We didn’t just survive long-distance—we learned how to grow through it.